I NEED:

My Ex Boyfriend Back                  My Ex Girlfriend Back
                        

This is how I got my ex girlfriend back… It may sound simple and it is… But it’s how you go about implementing the techniques that will decide your relationship fate.

Basically what I did first was find out why she left… It’s usually because of something that your lacking… Communication skills or sexual intimacy problems etc.

Maybe she just didn’t feel loved… maybe you didn’t have enough money…

I realized that I had a lot of power – I knew alot about her and what turned her on. I knew that she liked humor and a guy that could take control.

I knew that I was lacking in the financial front and needed to step up my dominant personality.

So I guess the second step was to:

FIND OUT WHAT I WAS LACKING

This is the most important step because it takes a lot of strength to accept that you DONT have something that another guy does have. Lose some pride for two seconds and be honest with yourself.

Ask some friends what they think of you and your weaknesses… It’s tough but it will help a LOT!

Next you need to figure out what it is that she is attracted to in other guys.

She will be going out and trying to attract guys that have your good qualities plus whatever you were missing.

You are trying to offer her MORE than the other guys by working on yourself. There were alot of aspects of your personality that she LOVED.

Which aspects did she find annoying?

What can you work on?

For me it was stepping up and becoming the man in the relationship rather than stepping back and letting her decide (which she hated doing)…

I kept asking her what she wanted to do… she kept saying “I don’t mind”

It really annoyed me how she had no personality and opinion but what was really going on was she was prompting me to step up and take control.

Because I rarely did – she become disinterested and unattracted.

What did you do that was driving your ex away from you?

Were you wussy? Were you mean? Were you broke?

Whatever it was it’s time to match up the traits she was looking for with the traits your lacking…

And work on developing that aspect of your personality.

When you next meet her and she realizes that your the man of her dreams PLUS she already loves a part of you that is still their it becomes a no brainer on her part.

This is where you create attraction – by becoming the guy that is attractive to her – you don’t have to change your entire personality… just add to it and patch the holes that were created though relationship neglect and laziness.